I stumbled across this online petition and knew immediately that word about it had to be spread. I don’t just repost it here as a call for greater theater courtesy, but also as a service to you, my dear readers.
I’ve been to a great many movie screenings (duh), so I naturally learned quite a few of these rules through trial and error. However, I know that a great many of you may not visit your local multiplexes on a regular basis, and may therefore be ignorant of the more recent rules in theater etiquette. It’s gotten to the point where the simple act of choosing a seat can be an art in itself. There’s also the matter of those ubiquitous ads that play before screentime, and where they fit into the old rules of “no talking” and “turn your cell phones off.”
Also, have you heard of the 15-minute rule? It means that as a general rule, a movie doesn’t actually start until 15 minutes after its listed showtime. That’s how you know you’ll miss nothing but the previews. It’s not really a point of etiquette, but it’s useful to know all the same.
Anyway, without further ado, here is the modern guide to movie etiquette. Learn it, live it, love it.
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To: The World
We, the undersigned, in order to improve the moviegoing experience for all theater patrons, pledge to:
1. SHUT OUR MOUTHS. Talking is permitted up to and including the trailers (we, the undersigned, also pledge to make fun of anyone who shushes people for talking over the MovieTickets.com ad). After that, we will be quiet. Valid exceptions: midnight movies and any film starring Nicolas Cage.
2. TURN OFF OUR CELL PHONES WHEN THE MOVIE STARTS. And on the off-chance we have a job that requires us to leave our phone on, we, the undersigned, pledge to sit in the back row of the theater so no one behind us is disturbed when we check it (please note: fantasy football manager does not qualify as a job that demands you leave your phone on).
3. NEVER BRING A BABY TO AN R-RATED MOVIE. Do you know why your baby is crying? Because it’s 10:30 at night and you’re forcing it to watch a man with knives for fingers use a naked woman as a whetstone.
4. NEVER BRING LOUD, STINKY FOOD INTO THE THEATER. This is the rule about outside food: nothing crunchy, nothing smelly. The worst possible thing you can bring to a movie (besides, y’know, a weapon) is Chinese takeout. People who bring Chinese takeout in crackly plastic containers should receive one warning. A second violation gets you a lifetime ban.
5. SIT DIRECTLY IN FRONT OF SOMEONE ONLY WHEN THERE ARE NO OTHER SEATS AVAILABLE. Only a-holes sit directly in front of someone they don’t know just because they “like” that seat.
6. LEAVE A BUFFER SEAT BETWEEN OURSELVES AND STRANGERS WHENEVER POSSIBLE. Only psychopaths sit immediately next to a stranger when they can sit somewhere else. True story: one time a guy sat down directly next to we, the undersigned, in a theater with dozens of empty seats. He wore his sunglasses through the entire film and occasionally turned and stared at we for minutes at a time. We, the undersigned, promise never to be that guy.
7. NEVER PUT OUR CRAP ON A SEAT AND PRETEND WE’RE HOLDING IT FOR SOMEONE JUST SO NO ONE SITS NEXT TO US. Genuine seat saving is totally acceptable. Fake seat saving so you have extra space to stretch out is a dick move.
8. THROW OUR GARBAGE ON THE FLOOR. The movie theater is the only public space in the world where it is socially acceptable to act like a pig. That is the way it has always been, that is the way it always shall be. We, the undersigned, vow that no matter how many times multiplexes include “Please Throw Away Your Trash” messages in their pre-show entertainment, we will continue to ignore them.
Sincerely,
The Undersigned